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Can you get paid to care for a family member? The answer for your state, sourced and dated.

Caring for a parent or spouse? Find out if you can be paid, and how to get a break.

We have checked 45 of 51 states so far, fact by fact, at the agency that sets each rule. A state's answer appears here once the facts behind it are confirmed.

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Can a family member be paid? State by state

Find your state below. Each answer opens the facts behind it, with the source and the date we checked.

Yes.
At least one state program on record pays a family member.
Depends.
A program pays one only under conditions, which the state's page sets out with their sources.
No.
No state program on record pays one.
Checked
When we last checked the facts behind the answer.

Guides for every state

How each route works across the country, in plain words, with your state's answer one click away.

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    Yes, in many states Medicaid can pay a family member to give care, and some veterans' families can be paid by the VA. Spouses face stricter rules. How each route works, who decides, and where your state stands.

  • Respite care: what it is, who pays, and how to get it

    Short-term care for the person you look after, so you can take a break. Medicaid, the VA, Medicare and state programs each pay for it in some cases. Who pays, how much, and how to get it in your state.

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  • Every fact links to its official source and shows the date we checked it. We check each state fact again at least every 90 days. How we verify
  • When we get something wrong, we fix it, date the fix, and list it. We never quietly rewrite a fact that was wrong. Corrections
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